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How can I get my parents to like my boyfriend?

my parents dont like that at all, I just want them to see him the way I do, he is so sweet, ive known him for about a year now. He treats me so good. like it was really cold last night and we went to a football game at our school and he put my hands in his hoody and held them till they where warm, and then he held me. He is just everything I am looking for. & I want them to see that. I just got out of a bad realationship, I lost my virginty to the guy, then he tryed to get in my pants the night he broke up with me, by a NOTE after hangin out with me after a party, he gave it to me when he was gettin out of the car. but I just want my parents to see this guy is just so sweet. what do I do?

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Answer #1

Dear inlove667, I can see your parents side in this situation. You just got out of a bad situation…the last boyfriend was sweet and nice at first too or you wouldn’t have been dating him right? Sounds like he was abusive to you yet you stayed with him…so you have a problem with judging people and perhaps you have made the same statements about this boyfriend as you did the last. You just got out of a bad relationship and bang into another relationship…more bad choices. Your parents are saying to you that they do not want to be involved with your bad choices and are letting you know this by their statements and actions toward this guy…since I’m sure if they told you that it was too soon to date again etc. etc. you wouldn’t listen to them. So I think what they are really trying to say to you is that they are ready for more bad choices from you. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

OMFG im going through the same thing & i need help so much cause i know that my bf did tell like one or two lies but they like cant stand him & everytime my mom like sees my phone bill and sees his number she gets mad like she has no respect for him at all & i have no idea what to do like at all lol

Answer #3

If you just got out of a bad relationship, shouldn’t you be thinking carefully about getting into another relationship? I’m sure your ex seemed like a sweet boy when you started dating him… and look at what happened. You new boyfriend may be yet another devil in disguise.

Your parents know you better than I do. Being older, they also have more experiences and a wider perspective than you. If they don’t like you hanging around this new boyfriend, they probably have a good reason. You should listen to them. I myself would advise not depending on a boy for your happiness.

Answer #4

if your bf really was sweet your parents would except him over time. my gf’s parents got to know me a bit and they love me as much as another son. give them time and if he’s a decent guy they’ll love him too!

Answer #5

let them know how nice he is and that you r happy with him they r just worried about you and be careful

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