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I went to my ex-girlfriend’s house today (she had just broken up with me 2 days ago) and we were sitting around when she said she needed to go upstairs for something. She had not given me a clear reason why she broke up with me and I had suspicion of another guy. so naturally I grabbed her phone and looked at her texts, I was shocked what I saw. There’s this kid she had feelings for previously and she would bring him up sometimes, well there were texts from him asking her if she wants to give him head and she said yes, and that she wanted to hangout next week (a simple metaphor for hooking up) anyways I called her out on I and she was really mad at me for going through her texts. Later on we calmed down and I said I was mad anymore. I went over her house just to chill as friends and she starts talking about him, so I started talking about the girl who im hooking up with tommorow night. which brings me to my question. Why do I still feel so jealous, is it ok? and should I really hook up with another girl just out of spite?(although I wouldnt really mind sex). And why would she keeptalking about him to me it really makes me jealous

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she’s trying to make you jealous, it seems both of you are trying to make each other jealous. you can keep being friends but don’t get back with each other, that would be bad. if you’re not ready to hook up with another girl then don’t. only do what you feel comfortable with, don’t do it for any other reason than you wanting to. you obviously still have feelings for your ex but try to get over her.

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