Why do people say sex is so emotional?

DO NOT MARRY THIS MAN!!! I have been married for almost 1 year, I am 24 and my husband is 23. We are having a few issues of our own and we knew each other and dated just each other for 5 years before we got married.. and we’re having issues.

Marriage is truly the most difficult relationship I have ever had!!! I do love my husband, but even under perfect circumstances Marriage is still hard… so in your case, you have only know your man for a short time, I would definitely wait. What’s the big rush?!?!

See this is why women and men dont get along anymore because they JUMP to marriage without even getting to KNOW! eachother first jesus man.

If you like getting divorces later on and him wanting to kill you because of all the bills he has to pay go for it other wise I’d get to seriously know eachother first before you walk down that aisle.

For 1 reason is because getting married is a SERIOUS thing its no ok lets pretend to play house, you are legally signing a waver to eachother basically to be apart of eachother for the REST of your life. You need to really think about this kinda thing before you do it otherwise your going to go through a lot of pain and your going to think drinking is the only way to take care of it.

You don’t really know each other and you are getting married? You clearly aren’t in the position to be getting married, how do you not realize that? Wow… Anyways… sex is emotional for some people, but not for everyone. If you are having sex with the right person for the right reason, you will feel some passion and emotion. If you are having random sex with someone you don’t care about, there would probley be lack of emotion. It really depends what type of person you are I guess.

guyyys. I can understand why your in shock about this . but its not what your thinking. its not like I didnt date . or havnt dated before . but they havnt worked out ..and religiously and culturally the whole dating thing is frowned upon … and im and I have met and spoken to each other etc. its just not as private an affair.. its like our parents play match maker and they did a pretty good job. coming down to what I was asking . the marriage need not be consumated the night of or the week of .. I can very well get to know him for as long as I want and then get into the whole intimacy thing if I WANT TO. im a young , educated individual and so is he and we both respect each others desires.. so hey! its okay!

so you’re getting married to someone that you don’t even know let alone love? oh god…

#1 if you dont love the guy and you also dont know why get married #2 yes the best sex is an emotional bond