Am I in an emotionally abusive relationship?

Am I in an abusive relationship? my boyfriend is constantly getting mad at me for stuff that really isn’t that bad and he gets majorly pissed off over it.. he says that me telling him how I feel is a mind game… he makes me feel like I’m worthless all the time.. the only time he really seems happy with me is when we are alone and doing things… we’ve never had sex though… all of my friends think I am but I’m not sure.. I feel sad all the time… and I’ve started to worry if what I say or do will make him mad.. I’m kinda scared of him when he’s mad because he kinda has an explosive temper(not the worse I’ve ever seen but still bad).. if I dont want to do what he wants me too I feel guilty… does these seem like an abusive relationship?

Answer #1

The first step in getting out of an abusive relationship is to realize that you have the right to be treated with respect and not be physically or emotionally harmed by another person. If you think you love someone but often feel afraid, it’s time to get out of the relationship — fast. You’re worth being treated with respect and you can get help.

Answer #2

yes, this is the modern world dont let him walk all over you…that doesnt mean to be disrespectful to him just tell him that he is making you feel this way…if he doesnt understand then it is time to let go of the relationship.

Answer #3

yes . you should end this as soon as possible even as much as you dont want too . nothing can come good out of and abusive relationship . it only produces more violence. next time when he gets mad it could be more then just holloring . he could black out and end up hitting you , that would be serious.

Answer #4

Yes, it does sound like you are in an abusive relationship.

How old is your boyfriend? Age doesn’t really matter but if he is young like you it might be the result of his hormones causing him to be insecure and he attempts to overcome that insecurity by taking it out on you.

He has to learn to like you as you are, not as he wants you to be.

Answer #5

He’s 16 like me

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