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me? uptight?

k so heres the dealio haha dealio I love that word… anyways so me and my boyfriend were talking and we were just talking about what I would let him him do next time we meet up. and all im gunna let him do is make out in his bed with my shirt off, bra still on and jeans on/off depending and no touching private areas or anything lol and he said like if you dont want to its ok I wont force u then I said “awww lol but does it make you upset or mad or make you think im uptight or boring?” and he said “oh no not really I spose” and he took ages to answer aswell not really? I spose? omg..then he was like well your a bit overprotected (uptight I guess?) so omg well I guess what im asking is what do you think?

btw we have been going out for nearly a year but its a long distance relationship and we dont see each other often and also I told him straight no sex until im ready which could be some years but like, im just so scared of moving things too fast and also because I had a boyfriend who was very forceful so its changed me as a person and has made me guarded I spose so what do you people make of this btw I dont know what im asking clearly I just want some kind of advice or opinions and am I just over analysing? :S cheers x

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Well honey, I’m going through the same thing, trust me your nor uptight, I mean, bein that itz a long distance relationship, its kinda hard 2 b really comfortable wit a guy, I mean you don’t c him everyday, and well bein comfortable with your body and another guy iz very hard when itz like diz…just try 2 loosen up a lil, if you tell me tho, I think its enuff what your doin…just remember that guyz always want more, and are always thinkin that if you don’t give dem more, that your bein a tease even when your not… Try 2 find things that your comfortable doin that makes you both feel good. I personally feel good with giving him hand jobs, I just don’t like him 2 touch me, lol, but I’m sure he’ll like that your touching him, trust me, if itz a long distance relationship, itz very obvious that he touches himself 4 u, so if you do it instead of him, it’ll feel all the more good…the important thing is that you feel comfortable doin it…don’t do anythin you feel your not readii 2 do…he’s the 1 that needz 2 earn your trust, itz not just your job 2 give it up

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