Why do I have this feeling when masturbating?

I’ve been sexually abused and im starting to get over it. I want my boyfriends to finger me but im scared. I keep thinking: what if he doesnt know how to do it? So to get myself used to it (thought itd make it less scary) I thought id try it myself but its like.. Hard to like I think I know what to do… I think. and it feels really good til I go “in” then its kind of hard to. Im wet enough its just hard to, is it supposed to be hard to get my finger in?

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Oh hun, I am sorry to hear you were abused :( You are very brave. I would say it’s hard because you are so tense and uptight, that your muscles are probably locking down so that its difficult for you. Talk to a therapist, and do not rush.

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