Married and in love with another man!

I married my husband a little over a year ago, but recently my old flame,the guy who I set my standards to has came back into my life. I would have never left him, I was just young and a little immature when we were together and he didnt want that. He always told me if its meant to be it will be. I have been talking to him for a few weeks now and its just like it we never broke up. I missed him and thought of him everyday. He said he loves me and always has, everyday since we parted he has thought of me also. He has told me he wished he’d had more patience. Now that I am married I dont know what to do. My husband loves me very much and doesn’t have any family, I moved him across the US to be with my family. I care about him and don’t want him hurt. The other guy lives in my home state and has told me that he doesn’t want to ruin my relationship if I am happy, All he wants me to be is happy in life. I feel that without him I ‘ll never be happy. What do I do? Lost in love and confused!

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Answer #1

Well, look at it this way…if you stay with your husband, you will not only be hurting yourself in the long run, but also your ex as well.

If you leave your husband, you AND your ex will be happy together.

So, out of the 3 people( you, your husband, & your ex)…would you rather 2 people be happy? Or have 2 people be miserable the rest of their lives?

Answer #2

wow well you have a big decision to make hurt the man you married or be unhappy for the rest of your life. I know it sounds cheesey but follow your heart. but it sounds unfair to your husband. good luck :)

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