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I'm in love with a married man and I'm married

Well me and this guy went out like 9 years ago and it didnt work out..so we still continued to mess around since we really loved each other..so I found out one of the girls that he was talking to gets pregnant.so I end up with a dam rebound guy who I end up getting pregnant by since I heard about my ex. So years passed and me and the ex still kept in contactand messed around on the side..he had problems with his wife and I had problems with my hubby…so we would see each other on the side..my hubby is in and out of prison and I really dont love him I now have 2 kids and still with him. My ex got divorsed but recently on his bday he got with the ex wife and now she is pregnant..my hubby is still in prison, wich I think I’m gonna file for divorse now..but noe my ex is living with his ex wife again.. Because she is having another son..now I see my ex atleast 3 times a week..he isnt in love with her..he tells me im the one he loves..smetimes we talk all night cause he sleeps in the living room..I’m confused..he told me that he was gonna move out and he was just gonna leave her the house..cause of the kids..I love him allot and wanna be with him but I just dont know what to think!!!

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Answer #1

ACTIONS ALWAYS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. You are nothing more than a piece of a$$ on the side. Sex isnt going to make a guy leave his ex, or wife for you! Sex doesnt prove a thing. You obviously didnt take your marriage vows very serious, and you seemed to have married for all the WRONG reasons. In my opinion, “you made your bed, now lie in it!”

If he truly loved you, he would be with YOU!

Heres what you need to understand>>Well me and this guy went out like 9 years ago and it didnt work out>>The only thing you two have going to between you is…sex and thats it!! Sex doesnt make a relationship, and it doesnt bring one together.

Answer #2

honestly I think that if he really loved you he would be with you..he doesnt have to be with his ex wife to be the father of his kids because no matter what he is always going to be there father and he could still see them and spend im with them..and just remember this some guys will tell a girl what they want to hear and her obviously he is telling you what you want to hear which is that he loves you and he is going to leave her..and if he loved you you guys wouldnt have anything on the side you guys would be together and happy..hope this helps

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