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In love with a married man

Hi, I was working with an engaged guy and we were really close friends. Many time s he told me that his relationhship with his girlfiriend is not so great… I always helped him to work things out with her…he had been going out with her for eight years… Just before about three months before the wedding we realised that we were falling in love… But I denied it because I was afraid… One month before his wedding he told me that he loves me.. But it was too late to change any plans and I also said that I will move on and wanted him to go ahead with his plans… I attended his wedding… After the wedding he called me and said that he is really in love with me.. And since then we were unable to stay without talking to each other a etc… Its very difficult because we work together… We are both in our mid 20s… Now he wants to leave his wife… Because he really does not have any feelings for her… I love him a lot… But I dont want to be the person who wrecks a family and break that girls heart.. But she is also not trying to work things out in the relationship.. And other people around also know that… I dont know what to do…I am so confused…

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Answer #1

Oo wow =0 this sounds like nothing but trouble… you shud nvr get involved with a married man…if he sed he loved you a MONTH before the wedding the why the hell did he still get married? Its not fair to his wife at all…

Answer #2

You should have not let it happen in the first place. Sure, he works in the same place that you do, but (especially knowing that he was engaged then), you should have just kept things professional. You know you saw it coming, and you could have discouraged him by not talking about your personal lives at work.

What’s done is done though, and you need to stay away from him now and BE PROFESSIONAL. Don’t encourage him any further. Any issues that he has with his wife, is his problem and he has to deal with them. He is an asshole for marrying that poor woman when he already changed his mind way before the wedding. You should stay out of it, and tell him that this is it and you don’t want to be involved, because you really shouldn’t & wouldn’t want to.

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