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Is he just pushing me away?

I’ve been talking to this guy for about a year. Everyone close to him sees us and says they see us getting married soon. He is currently jobless, and is starting his own business. I have been there for him in his highest and lowest moments every since I met him. We were very close…and have always had an awesome line of communication. About a month ago, decided to stay single until he stabilized his finances. I guess my question is, why do I feel like he is pushing me away? He has been busy with his business, and me with my school. I still talk to him, but it doesn’t feel the same. Should I worry that we don’t see each other as much or should I just be patient and trust that he is up to something good as far as his business goes? It would definately benefit our future…if we were to end up together.

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I don’t see how he is pushing you away? Maybe you hoped he would ask you out instead of stating his single hood, if so then why don’t you talk about it with him. He obviously has good reasons to be single. He also seems to cherish your friendship since he still talks to you when he can. I’m not sure you should blindly wait for him since you might be disappointed if he ends up not interested. If I were you I’d tell him about my feelings and see what he has to say. He might just need time and this is fine but if he isn’t interested then you have to let him go.

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