Im prego at 16 and fathers 20

the thing is im turning 17 and ill be 17 turn 18 when the kid is born its due around my bfs bday in january and my bday is 6 months after him is there any chance I could just have the kid and then nt tell the hospital abt him and claim I don’t know were the father is and everything and I don’t know im probably gona tell them after I turn 17 and moved out and im showing but I wear a hoodie all the time and my mom flipped out on my brother who is 20 and his girlfriend is 20 and having sex and my mom flipped out on him and thats why im so afraid to tell them and my dad flipped out on me for him being in my room with out his shirt on and they both were in the military so im probably gona tell them nt to call the cops but I wont tell them to either I go into labor or turn 17 and claim I got prego at 17 b/c then they cant do anything abt it

well I have my own insurence through plan parenthood and im thinking of telling them when im like 4 months b/c it will be around my 17th bday and I doubt they will send my boyfriend to jail when hes the father and they will probably make him support me and the kid and the only way I think I could get out of it is if I go to court with my rents and they give up all there rights of being my rents.

You have to tell them, they’ll notice sooner or later anyway, and that will be worse.

He can get arrested and your parents could file a restraining order against him when they find out.

At 16, you shouldn’t be doing it and planning pregnancies, anyway.

Think before you do what you’re doing, or it’ll all backfire on you later.

Babe your not legal HEHE but I know how you feel the best thing to do it to get it over with in the end they’ll still love you or just wait till its noticable then say something just dont think twice bout having it because when people do that it makes me sad for the world to come…

You can NOT wait to tell them, You have to!

If you are pregnant you need to see a doc ASAP! The first three months are the most crucial time in pregnancy.You need to make sure your baby is healthy, and so are u!! It doesnt matter if he gets in trouble right now your main worries need to be for that baby. Go tell your parents, so they can get you to a doc ASAP.

I’m sure if your already showing they’ll know you didnt get prego at 17 my father is in the military and my mother was but they need to know keeping it a seceret is about thee worst thing you can do. If my parents found out I got a girl pregnat they would tell me I would have to support it not them but me being a boy its different im sure your parent would just try to help you. Tell them sooner the better

Uhh tell um your in love… thats what im guessing since it was planned tell them you lied to him about your age before the pregnancy begg them not to tell the cops im sure they wont, they may kick you out depending what kind of parents they are but tell them ASAP like today tell me how it goes

yea its tough because they can definitely have him arrested for statutory rape…and im not sure but I dont even think you have to press chargeds …they can arrest him automatically if they find out…u definitely have to let yr parents know asap…good luck hunny !

That’s statutory rape, your parents could have him arrested if they wanted to. You and him are ignorant for planning the pregnancy.

just say you do not know who the father is

tough situation. It’s possible he could go to jail.