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Im 18 and told parents about pregnancy!

Im 18 and have just told my family that im pregnant me and the father live together but my family think its just a bad idea, I was so looking forward to having this baby ,but my family is not helping me at all what do I do?

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Answer #1

They may feel that way now, but it may change once the baby is here. Some parents go blastic, because they may feel your making another mistake, I’m not talking about the baby is a mistake, they may feel you might have to one day raise the baby by yourself, meaning the boyfriend may not stick around. But you can only do what you know and feel is right for you and the baby. Your parents may or may not change their feelings about what is going on, but remeber a child is a gift and you only want what is best for them. Maybe your parents are thinking the same thing who knows? keep the lines of communications open with your parents if you can, you can pray also. This also happened to me when I was 25, but they knew I needed them as much as they needed me and their grandchild. Remember this to shall pass, life is short but love is everlasting no matter how it may turn out with you.

Answer #2

your 18, I had my first child when I was 17 an im now 19, my lil girls mommas parents thought it was a bad idea for us to keep the baby, an they tried to make my baby mamma put her up for adoption, but we wouldnt, just live your life, your family will learn to love the precious lil baby you will have, my family has an so as her mommas side… good luck, do what you think is right

Answer #3

its not like im in a bad relationship , we are so happy together they just think im ruining my life

Answer #4

they trying to talk me out of havin the baby now!

Answer #5

thank you so much for your advice. all of you’s have really helped me

Answer #6

I can see where they’re coming from. You are a bit young.

Answer #7

Tell them your 18, its your life and they either surposrt you or they dont want you in their life

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