I'm 18 & pregnant I told my parents but..

My name is Brenda I’m 18 years old and Thursday june 12th I found out I was 5 weeks pregnant. I freaked out the first thing that came to mind was abortion. So I told my mom thinking I can talk to her, she was pushing the abortion issuse so I made an appoitment. Over the weekend I kept thinking that I couldn’t go on with the whole abortion. So today monday june 16th my mom made me tell my dad basiclly he flipped out. They took my car away they turned there back on me. I feel alone I don’t know what to do? Please help me!

Answer #1

Having an abortion will haunt you later on. You should tell your parents that it was your mistake and that the only way you’ll learn from it is to have the baby. You can put if into adoption later if you can’t take care of it… But please… No one deserves to be killed before their own birth..

Answer #2

I really thank all of you!

I’m pretty clear on my decision now

About the babys father well we’ve been togeather for 5 years! So right now he is just waiting on me to make up my mind…

Answer #3

Remember: It is your decision if you wish to have an abortion. While some people may judge, remember that it’s the mother’s right to choose.

When the fetus is only 5 weeks old, it is still fine to abort. If you hesitate too long, you might have more doubts than you do now.

Answer #4

Abortion is not the answer. Its not the baby’s fault that your parents arent giving you any support. Go to a local church or to a counseling center and they will help you. You might be thinking your all alone but you arent. Keep your chin up and do no let anyone bring you down. You can make it through this hard time. Show them that you can.

Answer #5

once again… abortion?… DONT DO IT! its your baby! but if you could afford it I would see a therapist.

Answer #6

well I think that you shouldnt do abortion because what did the baby ever do to you? and try to sit down and talk to your parents about it and try to talk things out. hope this advice helped

Answer #7

well, if you are already thinking abortion is bad, then most likely you shouldn’t do it. because if your thinking it over and their is even one doubt in your mind, don’t get an abortion. I would talk it over with everyone you are close to, like the babys daddy and see what he says. and try to talk it over with your parents and explain to them what you think. I knew someone who got an abortion once and she regret it so much that she tried to kill herself. just be sure of what you want, for your safety and everyone elses. good luck

Answer #8

Well when I was 17 and I found out I was 2 months pregnant I knew my mom would flip. I was scared as well she just kept on with the aboration thing and I stood my ground! I said no but in my heart I didn’t know how I was going to bring up a child. 8 years later my mom LOVES him to death and would do anything in the world for him. She even asked me if she can have him. In time they will come around. They are just thinking whats best for you esp. in your education

Answer #9

Have you spoken to the father? What’s his stance?

If you really feel that you can’t raise a child quote yet, you can a] abort it. b] go through with the pregnancy and then allow a loving couple to raise it.

Or you can always have it and raise it yourself. But that might mean putting your future on hold for now.

Answer #10

I’m KEEEPING THE BABY WISH ME LUCK!! THANX TO ALL ILL KEEP YOU POSTED!

Answer #11

Dont have an abortion…You will regret it later…What about the dad?Does he know?

Answer #12

Stay strong and do what your heart desires! =) Talk to the baby’s daddy.

Answer #13

I agree with way2smart see a therapist

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