I wanna cry right now..sry its long, please read =/

Talk to your whole family when they’re /all/ sober, and threaten to take him to an AA center or the police.

I know theres not much I can say becouse im 13 and my advice or comment wotn matter I jsut what you to know I am praying for you an your dad dose care aboit you guys dont give up on him this is when he needs you the most! I know my mom is never home eithr she has 3 jobs and when she I home she is sleeping I know you have it worse not to make you fell bad but just know you will always be in my prayer. P.S. (never give up no madder what)

you couldnt really have done anything as for your dad, he needs to get help for his dri nking, soemthing could very well go terribly wrong (because of him0 if he doesnt realise how much pain hes causing his family ask your mum to help, or you could call the police for help as well anytime you or your mum feels threatened remember that you can call the police, they wont necessarily arrest him or take him away from you, but they will make sure he doesnt hurt either of you and it would be best not to travel with him in the car go with your mum,brother or a friend if you dont feel safe in your dads car

honey honey honey, the first thing your doing wrong: blaming yourself. don’t do that! you can’t control what your dad does. it’s totally not your fault. so what I would do, is calm down. think things through. and talk to him… maybe when he comes home to eat and before he goes back to the bar, just say “dad, I need to talk to you” and if you wanna talk to him alone, then go where you can be alone. and if he doesn’t wanna talk and tries to walk away, then step in front of him and simply say (don’t ask, tell) “whats more important, the bar or your daughter?” and if that doesn’t work, then forget him. thats not a real daddy when he chooses booze over his family =/

if you need anything else at all, just fun mail me or whatever.

Call the police and then make sure your mom and you are out of danger be it at a neighbors house or friend or family member and let the police respond. Bu the biggest thing is to be safe.

There’s nothing you should have changed so don’t worry about should’ves. Try talking to your dad when he’s NOT intoxicated about how scary it is for you to see that, and how it makes you feel. I can’t promise he’ll respond maturely but hopefully he will, and even if it doesn’t, hopefully your words have an impact on him. All you can do is try, in the end it’s up to him.

It’s your parents problem and you must stay out of it. There is nothing you can do because you might get hurt. Just talk to your mom and let her know your concerns. -

  Shae