I hate my mother sooo much please help

thanks for trying to help but none of that really did. see my mom IS abusive to me. its not just like I make myself sound innocent and then im a horrible person. okay? so I need real advice on how I should handle her. I have several bad bruises from her and a year ago I began cutting my arm( with a metal nail file) when she really got to me.( I’ve stopped know of course but the scars are still there so I have to wear long sleaves…) and she screams the most terrible dirty words at me(words that I cannot say here) and I just need help. okay?

I have parents just like yours. they do love you. they probably just have a hard time with things. maybe your mom works a lot and is stressed out a lot. try talking to them about it, make them listen. let them no how you feel. I tried that , it took awhile because they wouldnt listen to me but after a while they started really listening to me for once, I still get yelled at a lot. but it has gotten a little better.

has she always been this way?

I thought my mom was like that too when I was younger. And a lot of the time it is hard to see your own actions. I thought I was a good kid and all, but when I look back at it now, I was a total grouchy antagonizing witch.

your mom though, still needs to set a good example as the adult in the situation, and learn to deal with her anger a lot better.

It isnt just for the moment… shes been like this for a really long time and she yells dirty words and cusses at me if I ask her whats wrong… and then gets mad if I dont so… I don’t know what to do

She is probably just very stressed at the moment, it must be so stressful being a parent, there are so many responsibilities, that us children never really consider. I think that your Dad is just trying to support your mum.

Try to do more stuff to help your mum out around the house, to try and take away a bit of stress.

Best of Luck!

Not the ONLY difference - she is the parent in the position of authority and should be respected - sure, she’s not perfect but neither are you - reading your paragraph, you’re totally the victim, an angel…I wonder what her side would be and if she could cite any examples…try to get along…you won’t always have each other.

if she hits you, you need to get out of that house. tell the school or something.