Step dad hates me. Please help.

Okay my step dad absolutly hates me. I don’t know why though! Most of the time I do everything he tells me to do, and I do it right, but then he always finds something about it that he doesn’t like and makes me do it all over again! Like the other day I forgot to wipe off the shove. HOLY SKEET!! He had a freakin heartattack and grounded me from the phone! He hates me which makes me hate him. And be knows I hate him so now he comes up with ways to make me snap on him so that we can get In a huge screaming fight and I’ll get in trouble for it of course. He threatens to choke me and throw me down the stairs all the time! I don’t know what to do! Help me please!

Btw my mom knows about it and won’t do anything. She take his side.

Answer #1

Call The Police Or Chid Line Or Somut,And For God Sake Your Mum Should Put you Fuc* First Then Your Step Dad.She Should Frigging Now That Every Decent Parent Puts There Kids First.Im Not Trying 2 Say your Mum Is Not Decent But What I’ve Sed Is True.If I Had A Step Dad And He Treated Me Licke Shii My Mum Would Probablu Leave Him.Blood Is Thicker Then Water Tell Your Mum Datt

Answer #2

you should go and tell the police, or tell your mom…

Answer #3

what about your mother I’m sure she would do something if you tell her about it ? tip talk in a calm way and even if he twist it let him just wait untill he’s done than resume on your story and remember dont be angry if you do you lost all vote’s

Answer #4

If he is threatening you, you can call the police.

Take your case to child welfare and they could have you removed from the home.

Answer #5

I have the same problem almost exactly the same I’m 15 now and ever since he’s been married to my mom (7) he’s been like that. Everything I do he thinks is terrible and I get grounded for weeks on end not even with a reason to be grounded and he sometimes gets me so mad we start screaming and he isn’t ever wrong supposedly and he argues over stupid things such as today I am locked in my room because he before said not to shovel snow on the driveway unless there is over an inch of snow so I didn’t and he gets mad about me not shoveling and I tell him to measure it because I don’t want to argue and so he flips out and says to me random stuff that makes no sense like “but that’s not the point you’re missing the big picture you don’t listen are you retarded or something…etc… And when I have friends over all he does is try to make fun of me and make me sound like a moron. I’m getting really pissed off and if I do one little thing wrong he grounds me. My mom just sits there and takes his side whenever I try to talk about it with either of them they just shout and swear at me and say go to my room I don’t want to hear it. The only one who understands me is one of my friends and he says go to a counsellor but I’m scared of what will happen if I even suggest it. He always favors my siblings (his children) over me my mom does too and when I ask to do something fun with them they always just say no some other time but always with my siblings I need help before I snap

Answer #6

Hi there, I have a stepdad too and am kinda in the same situation. Listen calling the cops will just make your relationship worse so I won’t recommend that because it’ll just damage your relationship more. I think you sould behave in a way that won’t give him an excuse to pick on you, then aftera while if he still acts the same way I think you should sit down and ask him calmy what his deal is. Good luck, and I am sorry you are in this situation I hope it gets better for you x

Answer #7

call the cops on his @$$ next time he threatens you. or, knock the holy sh!t out of him.

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