How to gain confidence and lose low self esteem?

Oh sweety, never turn to suicide. It’s not the answer, no matter what you think. I have been in the same position as you, im 15 too,I know what it feels like. And don’t worry about online bullies, the only reason they are saying crap to you, is because they hate something about themselves, and so they are saying crap behind a wall… sorry that was hard to phrase… but just ignore them! In terms of a divorce, I can’t say much, but I can say that your mom doesn’t deserve you. As for her boyfriend, just ignore him. I had a friend in a similar situation as you, with the whole bad divorce thing. Turns out, the best solution to his problem, was just confiding all his problems in one really really good friend who he could trust. You could try it. Figure out who your bestest friend in the whole world is, and pour your soul out to him/her. I guarantee you will feel a lot better afterwards. and for communication, figure out a persons interests. and if you have something in common, talk about it. If you don’t, don’t make something up, or change yourself for them. Just break the ice with very general conversation. eventually, you should get somewhere. when your listening to others, talk to them discussing the problems or whatever they are talking to you about

Drop me an email(im a guy) any time you want a friend to talk with. =) abhishek0mukherjee@gmail.com

Have a nice day! and remember, suicide is not the answer!

-Abhishek Mukherjee

woah girl..surely, like the one above me said, nvr turn to suicide as it does you no good.. you hv a pretty face, it may not be the prettiest but surely your pretty for me and maybe now’s not the moment where u’ll find your Mr.Right.. hehe I, too, had low self esteem problems before… I don like how my body looked like… a bit fat and I have stretch-marks… (donno what that is? google it.. hahaha) I said to myself, “things will change for the better for me” and just be patient and just ignore the bad influences or negative comments bout me.. tr doing that as well… ignore the bad, follow the good.. (hope that makes sense lol) and also, don’t fear to open urself up to other people.. other people also has problems and are constantly searching ways to ease their burden.. you cud share probs wit them and even me.. I’m always ready to help a friend in need.. =D so, hopefully what I said helped you in any way and I’ll be glad if I did.. =P always look on the bright side of life =)

dont commit suicide please things will turn around and dont listen to the cyber bullies most dont no you so get active play sports if you can hope I helped u