How do I tell my mom I'm bi?

I’m a 15 yr. Old girl and I want to tell my parents that I’m bisexual but don’t know how. I’m pretty sure that both my parents would eventually accept me, even though my dad is a bit of a homophobe. I also want to tell my mom first because of it. I’ve come close to telling her before but I just don’t know how to tell her. A little help?

Answer #1

“Mom, maybe I will be bisexual.” “Why do you think this?” “ I do not know, but my feeling is that”. In fact it is too early to say that you will be really bisexual or not. Your age is the period of certain changes. After twenty, when you collected enough experience on both sex, THEN you will may say that what you are.

Answer #2

well im a les .. and I have not told my mom .. but im sure she has hintss … im going to tell her when im out of skooll … I mean it matters how your parents feell about tha whole qayy thinqq .. so I meann . I say tell them when your readyy .. maybe even with the person your datinq at tha tyme ..

Answer #3

I would recommend that you NOT get into discussing your orientation with your parents right now. A hetero teen doesn’t bring his sexual preferences up at the dinner table. There is no good reason that you should either. (There IS a bad reason, and that is to strike at your parents in order to upset them. If you take this path you are going to have a tough time.) It’s probably better to finish high school, go away to college, and get a circle of understanding friends before you drop the Mom-and-Dad-I’m-gay bomb. And if your parents are paying for school, maybe wait til after graduation? (I’m just saying.)

What ever you decide, I hope everything goes well. Good Luck!!

Answer #4

There really isn’t any reason for you to tell your parents anything because that is a personal thing that they should not really be involved in. I know you feel the need to tell your parents something like that but what would you want them to do about it? Just accept you? They will do that anyways and telling them won’t make things any easier for you and trying to get into some type of relationship. If you really want to tell your parents anything then make for sure that you are bisexual before telling them something that is just a phase.

Answer #5

well just sit her down and say mom I need to tell you something that I think you should know. then when she asks what is it you say that you are bi. all parents dont really know how to take it so if she freaks out a little dont worry about it cause as you said she will eventually accept you. as for your dad your mom would probably tell your dad without you there so you can ask her to tell him or you can tell her that you want to tell him yourself and just do the same thing. hope I helped and need further advice fun mail me ~kaitlyn~

Answer #6

well thats something you have to do on your own. But best advice I can give you is see if you really are bi I think im bi but I think I just get jealous of what another girl has or I want to know what if would be live to have sex with a girl but I wouldnt want to spend my life having girls under my arms and in my bed. so check then come back to me funmail me.

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