Should I tell my Mom that I'm bisexual?

In your case, whether or not it is a sin is in the eye of the beholder. In this case, it doesn’t matter if you think it’s a sin or not. You’re grandmother thinks it’s a sin. And you’re going to bring a world of headache onto yourself if you press the issue that you are bi-sexual.

Just keep this to yourself until you have your sexuality figured out. Your mother and grandma can speculate all they want. At this point, you don’t really need to come out or admit or defend or hide yourself. The truth is, you’re bisexual. Maybe you’re all the way gay and halfway there. But if you are, this is something you need to come to terms with before inviting mom and grandma and the church and hell on earth all over it. It’s hard enough to deal with on your own, you know?

Just step back and tell your grandmother and mother that your sexuality is something that is still in it’s formative years and you appreciate their concern. There is no need to make it a family affair, just yet.

hey im bi and havent told my mom yet but here is what i would do tell her and say u are who u are and cant help it and its not a sin

well when you and your mom are talking start talking about bi people and ask her what she thinks of bi people……..if she says somthing bad forget bout what she said and ask her “Mom……..what would you say if i sad i am bi?” and see what she says then just tell her that your bi

being bi is not a sin it’s perfectly fine if she loves you she should love you for who you are and in time she will except it.

she’s your mom she loves you even when you kept something from her she will still accept you for who you are not what you are so just let it out

I know you dont want to hear this because you have probaly already heard it before. You dont know if you do or not yet, i had a friend who thought she was bi and she even tried dating a girl now we were 15 when this happened and after she and that girl broke up she thought hey im really not bi it wasnt what she thought she also went through a vergetarian stage too. When you are young you will go though alot of stages and I wouldnt tell her till a few years went by and you know for sure this is how you feel because you might tell her and then you might change you mind. Make sure you really know how you feel before you do anything.

Im 13! I know for sure I am I have a beautiful girlfriend and I love her so very much but are parents also dont know! If I was you I would just wait untell you feel right to tell your parents! or just ask them a couple question what they think about bisexuals!

I can answer your question very easily. NO!!! if she’s making you feel bad about who you are then you shouldn’t tell her. when your out of the house then if you want you can tell her. she will love you in the end but it will take some getting use to. being who you are is not a sin. I’m Bi too, but I would never tell my parents that. I rarely even talk to them about important things in my life. I don’t not tell her to keep her out. I don’t tell her because she wouldn’t get me. if you can’t take it anymore and you need to talk to someone then tell a friend. Send me your E-mail address and I’ll send you a song that will really help you. it’s one of my favorite songs and I think you’ll really like it. it’ll make you feel better about your situation. trust me. :)

From someone who knows. Kaci

Well, I am trying to find out the Sam thing. My girlfriend and I are both wondering if we should tell our parents. I am afraid my mom will reject me and kick me out, or just give me the silent treatment. I am afraid, because its not our fault for loving both the sexes, its just the way we are. Its not like we wake up one day and say, “Oh yeah I think I want to be bi, gay, lesbian”

no u shouldn’t my mom is aganist the whole bi thing.. one of my friends were and she just freaked out about us being alone.. i wanna tell her but i know she wont accept me for who i am and give me alot of crap about it.. just wait till your out of high school to tell her because then she cant do anything about it

Yes,I thought my mom would think the same thing but my mom accepted it so I should hope that your mom would to.

you should beter now than later

Just tell her. If she chooses not to accept you for who you are, that’s her problem.

grammy (yours) is right but (I am sorry lord) if you feel this way cool.I am too

im bi and i think you should

no not yet let a couple years go by and let it die down and then tell

I just recently found out I was bi. I told my two closest friends and they took it fine but they keep telling me that if it gets any worse I should tell my mom…and suposivly my mom is the “cool” mom to everyone that hangs out at my house. But my mom has NEVER spoke a word about bisexuality EVER so I have no idea how she would take it..so im unsure too. just thought I would let you know your not the only one out there that feels the same way and has the question “should I tell my mom”

im 16 and bi. I havent told my mom yet either. I dont know how she would react to me tellin her that im bi bc I dont really think that she has ever had a bi female friend. I don’t know if she will accept me and plus then she is going to tell the whole family and I don’t know if there going to accept me or just call me an outkast. havent told bc I didnt want our mother-daughter relationship be akward and change I mean I can just image what it would be like at the mall omg that would be a nightmare! and only a few of my friends know!! im thinkin bout just tellin my cousin bout it! even tho she has no clue what im going through!! ugh does anyone think and feel the same way I do?