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im bi how 2 tell my mom

me and my big sister are like best friends til the end we have different moms bout its all good well my sister have been gay for like a year and a half and she came out already im bisexual I have been this way for 3 years and my mom hates gays,bisexuals well I think she does. anyway I have not told her yet and its getting hard every day to hear her talk about how wrong it is to like girls. and if I tell her she will think I like girls because my sister does so I dont know what to do and im thinking bout dieing help me

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Answer #1

tell her. shes your mom. she will have a shock at first and maybe overreact. thats obvious.

but give her time to digest it. she will realize its not that big of a deal

Answer #2

Dont kill yourself over it its not that big of a deal, to you it is, and your immediate family will be a big issue. I think its best to be honest with your feelings first and then to your mom. I too am bi and havent told anyone of my immediate family. I dont want to put them through the up and down of me going through different stages that I am going through. Such as one minute I like a girl then the next I like a dude. I will wait til I find the person that I want to settle down with and then explain things to my family with what is going down with me. Being bi is great got the pick of everyone. So you should be happy and enjoy it. Does this help you at all?

Answer #3

iim bi too and my mom is abusive. she hates gays and bi ppl. i came out of the closet by sitting her down and calmly talkin to her about me and i told her to act rationally becuz it is who i am.

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