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How can I tell my Mom that I'm 14 and pregnant?

Me and my boyfriend who is 16 have been sexually active for about the past month I know for a fact that I am pregnant but I still dont know how to tell my mom I know that I want to have an abortion and I know that my mom will support this decision but im still not sure what her first reaction will be and I dont know how to tell her

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Answer #1

Wow. Thats tough. You have to do what you have to do. Your mom is probably going to be upset and angry, but she will accept it and be a mom to you. I dont know your parents but most parents get very angry about this…(several of my friends have been in this situation). My friends daughter is having a baby…she is 14 and due in 2 weeks…her mom was furious, but accepted it and is letting her keep the baby. Whatever you decide, you need to be positive and assertive, tell your mom, you made a mistake, andyou need her help. Be strong. And make sure your mom knows that you know you messed up. Appologize, and tell her you want her to get you on birth control so this does not happen again.

Answer #2

damn yall really messed up well just be real in explain to ur mom that it was a mistake in u no that u were disopedient in well i don’t no ur mom will be angry for a while so keep far away from her at that moment rember far

my opinion,im 15 male in i no that if some boys have a child they will run away in leave the young female no joke my step brother thought he was in this situation in was about to go to california so girl i hope u had sex with somone that really care about u in would be a good farther but before u do anything get a test it might come out negative because the girl thought she was pregant because different things was happening so get the test before u make a move don’t get a abortion in go to church u in ur boyfriend that’ll help the situation alot

Answer #3

wow,14???

Answer #4

First off, you shouldnt have a abortion. yeah, you messed up but you and your b/f created a baby and you need to accept the responsbilities. it wont be fun, but you need to take care of this baby. but, if you really dont want it, then put it up for adoption. There are millions of parents wanting babies. Please, dont abord it.

Second. you just need to sit your mom down and tell her calmly. if you think she will overreact, take a aunt, or someone with you. it will be okay.

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