How do I stop being so jealous?

I hate to say it but it does sound like you need to be by yourself for awhile so you can work on your problems.

you don’t need anyone to make you happy.. my advice to you will be to go and make peace with yourself. accept yourself just as you are.. when you find that inner peace and happiness, you will be ready to accept and give love.. and you don’t need to be best in anything to be acceptable, we all are average, there will always be people better or worst than we are.. I supose you got problems seeing the good in life.. go back to nature.. see how beautiful God created everything. As I read through your story I get the impression you feel rejected, not good enough to be in a happy relationship. you are good enough!!!

thankyou. yes, he knows about me ex and I’ve explained the reason why I get upset over stupid things, but I know it can’t be easy for him. im am trying my hardest to change and get over the ex. I dont speak to my ex or anything, so he is history, but the things he did to me broke my heart and I dont have feelings for him now, it’s just I think all guys are the same, like you said.

how can I actually work on my trust issues? do I need a break from him?

Have you explained to your boyfriend about your previous relationship? You have a lot of trust issues which is totally understandable, but you need to realize that not every guy is like your ex. You need to work on your trust issues before you will fully trust him. I’m sure that to a certain point your boyfriend understands what you are feeling and he probably understands why you don’t trust him but that doesn’t make it easy on him. Try to keep your thoughts about him to yourself…don’t accuse him of anything. All it will do is cause a fight that you don’t want to have.

Good luck

thankyou, I will try everything you said =)

What you need to realise is that you didnt recover from your previous relatoinship, you jumped into another realtionship to quickly therefore you think that all boys are the same,, .. All girls feel jelous .. were all insucure .. the point blank fact is that HE IS WITH YOU … you need to keep reminding youself that and you should feel better.,, forget about the other reltionship.. and try and make this one work.. dont acuse him of anything cus that will just push him away … hope this helped x