How can I stop being so jealous!?

I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago because he always put me last in his life. He broke plans with me twice in one week to be with his friends. So I broke up with him. Then he told me that he can prove that I don’t come last. So the last week, we’ve been seeing each other and everything was going great. Until last night. He came in with a blanket that just came out of the dryer, wrapped it around me tightly and picked me up and put me on the bed and started kissing me. (We were in the middle of watching some movie and there were a bunch of naked girls.) Right when I though he was actually being sweet, wrapping me in a warm blanket and kissing me, he stopped kissing me to turn around and watch the naked girls. I got upset. But I let it go. Then this morning we were out fixing his truck, and I found a calendar with topless girls in his truck. Then I got upset and left. I know that it’s a natural thing for guys to have this kind of stuff, but for some reason I get so jealous, like I’m not good enough so he has to watch other girls… How can I stop being so jealous? It’s ruining me!

Answer #1

em I would say that he is just a typical lad…and what he did was so sweet !!! if he does relglaur things like that hold on to him and ALL lads have somekinda stash of topless girls thats normal for them haha, and maybe I’m not saying you dont try but the way he stopped kissing maybe you start to kiss him back you giggle it off and say like ‘haha uhh your a typical boy aint ya …’ then kiss him again :) hope this helped in some ways xx

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