How do I deal with my mom and being around family?

ok so im 15 and I hate being at home. I go to school I have the best life ever and lots of friends and everything. but the minute I get home I feel so stressed and I just hate being here. I dont get along with my mom for anything. I’ll be having a good day and rite befor I go to bed she’ll tell me things to make my upset like I cant go anywhere on the weekends cus I didnt do my work. and when I do my work she still yells at me! I feel like nothing I do is ever good enough for her. I remeber one time she got mad at me nad groiunded me cus I didnt fix her lazy self a burger! I dont know what to do but all I think about is getting out of this house!

Answer #1

Well, My mom is sorta that way. I could feel so happy at home and The moment I get home its depressing. I found out that the best way is to isolate yourself so there is nothing for her to get upset about, one of her problems may be that she just feeds off of arguments. So do your best to stay out of her way and dont give her a chance to even part her lips to speak to you. Most likely she would try to upset with you hating her and being a downer just reply by saying your just trying to make things better.

Answer #2

sounds like my life only a little better my I sway wy worse but I have the life at school fun mail me if you want to talk.

Answer #3

By the way im the middle child and my lil sister gets away with anything! she can commit murder and my parents wont say a word. but when im up against my lil sister I cant win. even if shes wrong I have to suffer the consequences.

Answer #4

I don’t know much about what you’re going through, but at my house my parents used to be the biggest fags. They would make up reasons that I couldn’t go places and do certain stuff. They were also total losers. I don’t know if this is like your problem, but what I did with my parents is break them down. I would break their rules all the time and get my friends involved and try to make them feel stupid. I would leave places and not answer my phone or even leave a hint of where I was going. They sorta have shifted to where they will now let me do what I want most of the time. They are still losers but I’m working on that. You should try this method, but make sure you know what you’re doing or else it might backfire.

Answer #5

I know exactly how you feel… I’m the middle child to and cant do shit, my sister gets everything… I guess the only way for me was to get used to it but then I just went around the house, didnt really talk or anything. I got home went wathed tv once the fam got home I went to my bed or played xbox mostly avoiding them… sooner or l8r they’ll get sick of it and start treating you bettter or pay more attention to you or w/e you want…

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