Dealing with racism in family

My family is kinda like your, They don’t belive in the same thing they think white should be with white and black shouldnt even live! For a while they had brainedwashed me in thinking the same thing it was crazy! But my sister is the only one that as ever been with a black guy they are married and have a baby girl. Most of the family hates it! but when they got to know him they didn’t look at the color of the skin they looked at how much my sister loved him. Now this may be hard but try to get your father to talk with him and get to know him thats what my sister did and know everyones loves him. Some people changes there mind about someone when they get to know them better. Show your dad how much you guys care for each other it may take a while. and it may not work but like you said your kids need grandparnts.

Wow, I don’t know what to say. Some parents are just stubborn. For instance, my dad and his side of the family is completely racist. But my mom isn’t. They are used to their customs of growing up in the ‘60’s. Well atleast that’s what my grandma tells me. All I can say, is that you should try to prove to your father that your husband makes you happy, and he shouldbe happy to see his daughter with a smile on her face.

my family’s the same. I date a black guy- have been for 11 monthes. were still in highschool, we probably wont end up being together forever, although I’d like to think so right now :) BUT, my grandmother even went as far as saying I wouldn’t get my inheritance. (I couldnt care less) but, I do love him.. and I cant see anything at all wrong with it. for right now, im going to stay with him.. I dont think any relationship should have to end, because of anyone outside of the relationship.