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How can I deal with my Mom's violent boyfriend?

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Ok, this is going to be long but please listen!! My moms been dating this guy for almost 6 months now, maybe more, I don't know! ...but, he seemed pretty cool, seemed like someone I could get along with. I was happy because my mom was happy. Then after ahwile I've noticed he had a bit of a drinking problem. One night, he got mad at my mom for something and he started breaking EVERYTHING in our house. and none of the stuff is his! he broke the cable to our phone, he broke our chairs and tables from throwing it, and tons of other stuff. ya later on in the week I was mad, who wouldnt be. But of course, I got over it and accepted his apology. Then a couple weeks later, he did it again, but this time, really scared me! he chased me mom around the table trying to hurt her. He flipped over the refridgerator, like it was nothing. Then I told him I was going to call the cops. then he broke our phone! so I was SOL for that. then he kept on breaking stuff. Earlier in the week I found out we got our phone turned off. him and my mom told me it was because they couldnt pay the bill, so I was like...ok w/e...no big deal...but then I found out from my brother, he spent $400 dollards on coke instead of the phone bill...and thats what really made me upset. Now hes trying to act like nothing ever happend. and ever since my mom's been with him, shes been a whole nother person..I dont even know her and e more. She always in a bad mood and I never want to be here!!! I need help because im lost on what to do!!