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Believe It Or Not!?!?

my boyfriend and I have been together for the past 2 years now and we have discussed having sex before, but I’m really scared that it is going to be horrible!!I hear different things all the time, like you’re going to bleed a lot, or it’s going to be uncomfortable/painful. . . .I just want to know if any of these negative things that I keep hearing are true!!! I am not planning on having sex with him for a while, but I don’t want to be scared about doing it anymore!! please help ease this troubled mind!!!

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Answer #1

use lube and make him go slow…a lot of forplay is a good way to help you get wet enough for it to slip in with out hurting…a lot of people tell you different things.,..cause every 1 is different.. so just relax and wait till the tie is right…before you know it u’ll love S3x and wont wanna stop

Answer #2

tell him he has to be very gentle. it will hurt you at first but it does get better. and you will eventually enjoy it.

It’s totally normal and fine to be very nervous.

It’s liek riding a bike :)

Answer #3

If he is gentle and slow then it won’t be that bad.

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