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Okay, so I’ve been seeing this guy for about 6 months. We’ve gotten pretty close, and love hanging out with each other. well about a month or two ago I went to spring break with my girls, while I was gone he hung out with another girl but it was in with a bunch of differnt people. Some of the people that were with them said that they had sex. The girl that told me has a history of starting stuff, he claims its not true, and he always tells the truth because he doesnt care at all, hes not afraid to admit his mistakes. Well here recentally the girl said that they had sex again, he got mad, and went off on her while I was on the phone, and the girl admited it wasnt true. Should I believe that it didnt happen and move on, or leave him?

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Answer #1

I think maybe yur guy is telling the truth and that other girl is just jealous and trying to start stuff to break you two up. do you know who the girl is that he hung out with is? if she is still around, ask her. it may be weird, but if you want to go as far as to do this, it may not b the best decision, but go ahead if you have 2.

Answer #2

Hmmm kinda tough here. The only that that rubs me the wrong way is that as soon as you were gone on vacation, he was hanging out with another girl. Sure there were other people there, but the way you worded it, I dunno. I don’t get a good feeling. But then again, I don’t know all that much about your situation. I would be careful, keep my eyes wide open and observe cause you don’t want to end up looking like a fool. Maybe try talking to the other people he hung out with and find out exactly what happened.
Do you have any beef with this girl that likes to talk smack? If you do, maybe that’s why she’s starting sh*t. Again, be careful. good luck

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