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Do I believe him or not?

Ok here’s the deal, me and my ex only dated for two months, and he broke up with me saying that he didn’t have time for me because of his grades && blah blah blah we needed to take a break, but he was dating this other chick the very next week, but he still cheated on her with me, later on he’s admitted to me that he really only broke up with me because he can’t handle long relationships whatsoever, he tells me he stll loves me and stuff and that we’ll get back together eventually, just not now because he’s afraid of dating me again because he knows he’ll just end up breaking my heart again, it’s been 5 months since we’ve broken up, and I still feel the same way about him. We still mess around and him and that one chick broke up after a month, but I’ve had 2 boyfriends after him and I’ve cheated on the first one with him and I’m cheating on my current boyfriend with him. I know it’s wrong, but I can’t help it, he’s my first love && I can’t imagine my life without him, what do I do???I know the situation seems like he’s playing me but I truly believe that he’s not, we talk all the time our relationship isn’t just sexual, in fact, we haven’t had sex in a long time but we still talk and hang out a lot. Help??

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Answer #1

I completely agree with the above. you can’t know if theres better then him if you don’t look. you may not feel he’s playin you or you may not want to believe it but it’s true. the sooner you realize you need to get over him the better. if you get over your ex you will stop thinking of him and focus on the relationship your in right now. hope I helped :] funmail me if you need more advice!

Answer #2

Hun, it’s really hard to find one that is completely honest who isn’t a jerk. Especially at such a young age. No one is completely sure though. Your guy might actually mean everything he says. But what if he doesn’t? If he really does care about you the way he says, then he wouldn’t play games. He would take things seriously and be with you more, not just when it’s convienent. He would be proud to have you. Don’t lower yourself to his standards and be a… I believe the word is “booty call.” You deserve better.

Answer #3

Thanksss =]] See,, everyone tells me that I deserve better…but I really don’t think there is any better. He’s the most intriguing guy I’ve ever met. && Lately… He’s been more open about our relationship. He’ll walk me to my classes && stuff and sit with me at breakfast…things like that. I think I’m going to keep trying,, I’m just not going to keep my hopes up too much. Since me && my boyfriend just broke up [[now he’s in a mental institution.. don’t I know how to pick them??!!]] I’m free to do as I please.

Thanks for your advice ginuh!!

It really helped me out.

PeAcE;; <33;;&& SeXXX

Answer #4

Don’t believe him. According to your profile you are only 15. If I was still waiting on the same person that I was with when I was that age, I would be miserable. And you will be too. I’m not saying that it is impossible for you guys to work out, I’m not God. But I am saying that most people in the teen age group don’t see past tomorrow. You need to stop and think about all these things you’re saying and doing. This guy is obviously no good. Good luck with your decision, and I hope things work out for you.

Answer #5

thanks for the input =/ what I wanted to hear was, that he’s being honest and he really cares;;

but ya’ll are probably right.

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