How do I make my girlfriend believe me?

im 14 and my girlfriend thinks I had sex with another girl and I diddnt but she wont beleive me. how do I make her trust me?

Answer #1

You cant make someone trust you, ask her why she thinks that and try to work it out.

Answer #2

yeah,to be honiest if she chooses to listen to rumors than you I think you should say, no I havent had sex and if you dont belive me there is not much point of being with you because realationships a built on trust.

Answer #3

hey people I haven’t had sex with anyone it was just some rumor and I have never lied to her

Answer #4

I think you are a little too young to love yet, but if a man truly loves a woman, but has made many mistakes, then the best thing he can do is say, “I haven’t had sex with anyone else. If you choose to believe the other side then I respect your decision and will try harder to earn your trust.” then follow that with an ‘I love you.’ Then think of something to do for her. Don’t get her a gift because she’ll think your trying to buy her off. Do something special for her that only you know and don’t be shy about it either.

Answer #5

Tell her that if she doesn’t believe you when you tell the truth, then she is not worth your time. Do you really want to be with someone who doesn’t trust you? Plenty more fish in the sea.

Answer #6

Eh.. well, in all honesty, you are a bit too young. No offense, but boys of your age do not mature as fast as women.

If you must, just be forward with her.. look her straight in the face and tell her. Tell her that she can choose to believe you or not.. but it is the truth. If it doesn’t work, ask her why she believes that.. try to clear up the misunderstanding.

Answer #7

Actions speak a lot louder than words. If you’ve lied to her about anything she’s not going to believe you when you say you didn’t do anything. Is there a reason she doesn’t believe you? Have you cheated on her before?

Some girls have a hard time trusting. Trust isn’t something that is automatic, it’s earned. If you’ve broken that trust at all…by cheating or lying…then you need to earn that trust back…not with words, because honestly, words don’t mean sh*t.

Answer #8

Hang on - you are 14 and having sex? How old is she? I may be out of touch with what is going on these days but 14 seems far too young to be having sex…

Answer #9

You shouldnt have made her think you slept with someone in the first place

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you cant say its completely her fault that she thinks tis no matter how dellusional you may be

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