Should I tell our Dad my sister is pregnant?

my sister is 13 but shes turning 14 next week. anyway shes 3 weeks preggers. im the only one who knows right now and I promised not to tell anyone. but should I tell are dad?

Answer #1

Don’tgo behind herback because thats horrible and she will be mad at you, you should tell the parent you trust the most, and tell them at a good moment in time.

Answer #2

don’t do it behind her back, she’ll never trust you to something like that again. talk her into telling her dad

Answer #3

No, YOU shouldn’t tell your dad. If you did you would be breaking a confidence with your sister and could possibly destroy your relationship for the rest of your life.

I would work hard at trying to convince her that the correct thing to do for both her welfare and her baby’s is for her to tell her dad. Then she could start accessing agencies and services available to help young mothers-to-be.

Your dad may be mad at her for a while but he will get over it and come to her aid.

A caveat, is that if your mother is no longer in the picture AND you are in a sense acting as a surrogate mother, then there may be some responsibility on your part to tell your dad. If that is the case, then I would explain that to your sister and tell her that if she doesn’t tell your dad by a certain date then you are going to have to tell him.

Answer #4

Well, this is a serious situation, but until yo uknwo if you are going to keep it or not, theni dont know what you should do about that. You see, some parents will overreact to things like this, when I findthat that is really dumb, whats done is done

So if they get angry, they are doing it for no reason. Since its already happened I think the only thing to do isi ask them to help. I mean this is more stressing to her than it is to them. and if this doesnt help, funmail me, and I will help you out some more.

Hoep this helps. Discuss it with her, or funamil me now, then maybe I can give yo some one on one…

haha just creepy! LMAO

but seriously.

Skylar

Answer #5

does pregger mean pregnet? cause if so… dONT tell any one, she will be mad at you. you should incourage HER to tell someone! everyone will find out soon anyways. they won’t have to know, that knew and diddn’t say anything. you could

  1. say something and have your sis be very mad at you…or 2: dont say anthing, and maybe get in trouble later on for not saying anything.
Answer #6

you need to tell your dad because the more you wait the worse it gets trust me because I have had personal experience in keeping secrets from my mom it is definitely worse if you wait and you can get in trouble too because you didnt tell right when you found out you need to talk to your sister and try to make her understand she is going to need her dad or someone who has had a child to get her through this

Answer #7

You need to tell someone…She wont be able to hide it forever

Answer #8

what does preggers mean?

Answer #9

OMG shes my age and shes pregnant! I think you should talk to her and tell her to start thinking about telling your dad. And if she refuses do what you think she would do for you if you were in her posistion

Answer #10

13 and preggers OMG that well young

Answer #11

Your parents are going to find out sooner or later, you should try to get your sister to tell them. Because atleast then she can play the ‘I trust that you love me enough to help me card’. That is to say they will most likely be angry when they find out, but they’ll be angry and disapointed that she didn’t trust them enough to tell them if they find out on their own.

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