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Im 17 and pregnant and dont know how to tell my dad

I’ve just turned 17 and I’ve known im pregnant for some time now. My mum knows so does everyone else except my dad im too scared too tell him. Im his little girl and always will be in his eyes. Hes always told me if I come home pregnant he’ll disown me and throw me out. I dont know what to do

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Answer #1

I think I’m in the same situation as you.. except I haven’t told anyone, I’m guessing our dads are alike,.. I’m 16, he has always thought of me as being 7, he is WAY to overpretective of me, he wont even let me have friends who are guys without giving me hell about it. My dad is sooo strict, ask any of my friends, but anyways, my point… that is going to be the hardest part for you, telling your dad, the reason why is because now your not his little baby girl.. I doubt he’ll kick you out, he says that for scare to make you not do anything.. but obviously that didn’t work… but you’ve already told your mom, ask her to be there when you tell him, and remain calm at first, otherwise he’ll start freaking out because he knows its going to be bad.. also, ask your mom how to tell him, shes known him a heck of a lot longer than you, she knows how to work him, so ask her for advice..

gook luck

Answer #2

maybe now that everyone, including your mom knows- someone could sit down with you and your father to explain the situation. although you cant control how he may act, he will eventually get over it. but the longer you wait to tell him, the harder it will be. so my advice to you is tell him today. theres no better time than the present.

Answer #3

sounds like some good advice thanks. but he;s a very scary man I think im going to wait. thanks anyways

Answer #4

You deserve it, you are /way/ too young. Just tell him.

Answer #5

Send him a link to this question ..

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