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How can I tell my abusive Dad that I'm pregnant?

im 15 years old and im pregnant and like my dad already hits me now like i mean he punched me in my jaw because he didnt like the shirt i was wearing so.i mean im scared of what he will do now that im pregnant..but not only that my dad has a big money problem right now and i dont kno how i will be able to pay for the hospitol bill or the baby food or anything im like really scared!

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Answer #1

You need to go to an adult you trust. This can be a teached, a friend’s parent, your school counselor, a sports coach, another family member, whoever you feel safe with. Your father’s abuse towards you is out of line, wrong, and illegal. And yes, you do need help with deciding what to do with this baby and how to pay for it. Go to an adult you trust and explain to them the entire issue. Tell them why you are scared of telling your father. This is not just for your safety, but for that of your baby as well. Finding your local planned parenthood or women’s and children’s safe house could be another option. If your father is abusive toward you now, how will he be toward a crying baby at 3am if you keep it? Good luck dear, please, for both of your sake’s, get help.

Answer #2

I Agree with That guy up there^ Call 911 next time he hits you You DONT need to live with that. That is NOT good. You dont deserve it.

And,Speak with someone other than your dad about it first.

Answer #3

get rid of dad, look after baby, live with relatives. try to live hapilly ever after. thats in order of inportance. i think you know what must be done about your dad.

Answer #4

First of all honey. If you knew that your Dad was that way you should have protected yourself and avoided this happening. It sounds like your dad has some issues. Is there anyone that’s close to you that could tell him or protect you from him when you tell him. If I was yo I would seek someone else t at could help you deal with this or say nothing to you have help I wish you the best think things over before you decide

Answer #5

i agree call the police or somehting, he has no right to punch u, it could get even worse if he punches u.

Answer #6

Next time “Dad” hits you I want you to dial 911.

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