How do I tell my mum and dad im pregnant

in 13 and two months pregnant. im scared to tell my mum cause shes sorta abusive…and im deathly afraid to tell my dad cause he plain up just scares me. I want to keep my baby..I’ve taken a long time too decide this.. all I have to do is tell my parents…its just im really scared.

Answer #1

maybe tell another family member first? then have them talk to your parents.

Answer #2

you should tell them sit them down and tell them…;if your parents hit you then tell someone you need to get out of that

Answer #3

I am 14 and I think I might be pregnant if I was you babe I would get some kind of councler or doctor to be there when you tell them. they cant hurt you and if they do then there are always people that can help you(-: good luck babe

Answer #4

Have the person who got you pregnant(your boyfriend im hoping) be there when you tell them. That could really help. Or, if you are close with another relative(adult) like a grandma or aunt or uncle or someone else, you could talk and tell them first and have them be there to help you tell your parents.

Answer #5

talk to someone you really trust other than your parents first. have them help you find a way to break the news to your parents if your scared that badly have the person go with you to tell them.

goodluck, I hope evertthing goes okay.

Answer #6

yes, as everyone else was saying either have your boyfriend or a trusted relli, even if its your best friend, im sure theyll get used to having a beautiful grandchild as time goes on goodluck

Answer #7

Sorry Sorry ??? you Have Open your Legs = you Must Open your Heart = Be True To That New Born Baby = God Will Open your Heart - Be Total True = One Life …

Answer #8

wow im 13 too so ya that must be scary to tell your parents…if youre scared to tell them than take someone with you like everyones saying. your parents cant force you to get an abortion the clinics follow what you say so thats something to know. but ya the telling your parents like I said (and almost everyone else) bring someone with. and if you do keep this baby than you can get help with it. theres wellfare, wick, and a lot more of places that help young mothers. hope you and your baby live a good and safe life.

-lonely4alwayz-

Answer #9

Thirteen is a bad age to have one love. Will rip you to pieces. When telling them, telll them you realise the consequences, and the amount of responsibility that comes with having a child. And you’ll love him/her and care for him/her as your parents cared for you. And tell them you’d love their support but it’s okay if they don’t want to at this stage in time. This way, they’ll realise you have a grown up approach to it all. Also, they might be very angry and upset at the time, so give them some space. Their little girl is pregnant right? It’s gonna be hard for them as it is for you. But I hope all is well for you in the end.

Answer #10

Having a child at your age , May ruin your future :/ But its your choice [: You should have a close friend with you when you tell them , Or perhaps if your scared of your parents hurting you or anything , maybe you should tell another person to tell them when your out the house , Such as an aunt , Sit down with them and discuss it , and tell them about the faact that ure scared of telling uure parents x

Answer #11

I can only imagine how scary it must be, cause im 14 not far from your age. well just like everyone else has been saying, just talk to a family member or friend you trust very well and have them there when you tell them and if things get out of hand they could get help. well good luck with it all.

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