Should I tell my dad I'm pregnant?

I just found out I’m pregnant. I haven’t talked to my dad in about two years but about a month ago he called me back, finally. Should I have to tell him I’m pregnant? I mean if he would have stayed in contact with me then he would know but I see it as his fault for not talking to me.. What do you think? Would you tell him..?

Answer #1

yea because if you dont tell him its like you dont love him or somethin and he will get all mad just say dad your gonna be a grand daddy and hell understand maybe even get exited

Answer #2

Its entirely up to you. seen as though your dad’s abandened your feelings for the past 2 years do you want him to be part of your life? Or are you the forgiving type? It’s totally your choice. do you want your child to know its grandad or do you feel the baby would be better of without him? x good luck x

Answer #3

It’s your decision if you want to tell him. If you’re not comfortable doing it then wait till you’re on better terms with him, afterall you really don’t know if he’ll keep talking to you or not.

Answer #4

its all up to u. he is the one who hadnt talked to you for years. but if you wish to create a relationship with him again then tell him. he will eventally find out so its better to tell him now then to wait.

Answer #5

it’s all up to you.

I mean, it’s not right for him to not talk to you for hella long, but if you want a relationship back with him, I would tell him.

plus he will find out eventually.

Answer #6

yeah okay..when I did that my mom tried to push me down the stairs in a screaming rage and I bumped into the railing (it was a sharp edge) and ended up having a miscarriage I don’t know, not everyone’s parents are psycho like mine, but I’m just saying. I would do this in a public place, like over lunch or coffee or something. so your parents mind what they say and their temper

Answer #7

It all depends on how you feel about your dad after him not talking to you , but he does have a right to know as he will be a grandfather , but he will find out eventually so if you don’t say something it could make things worse , so if I was you I would tell him because it could also bring you two closer , if you feel hurt by him not contacting you for ages it’s something you should talk to him about and make him aware so he knows and can try make it up to you before it’s too late.

Answer #8

woaaahhh did you tell mom yet??

Answer #9

yees you have to

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