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Dealing with abusive parents

im the last child at home I have 2 older sisters and 3 older brothers which are all married. im stuck home with my mom and dad im 16 almost 17 and since my birthday me and my parents have not got along all the ever say is how bad of a child I am and im stupid and a waste of life. I get pretty good grades and I dont think im bad I got a boyfriend that is 17 and he treats me so good expect my parents hate him and all they do is talk shit on him so I can never bring him over because I know they will say something… my parents say hurtfull things and sometines hit me im scared and dont know what to do please help me I need advice!!

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Answer #1

Do not care about the bad side of your parents. Just forget it. You write that you have good grades, that is nice, but that also comes from your parents. If a 17 yo girl who has good grades and a trustful boyfriend has to think about her future. It is pity that your parents does not support you emotionally, but if you are strong enough it is does not matter. You and your b/f should support each other, the time works for you, and you will be a winner. I have seen such a fates, later the parents had to reconsider all of their behavior, opinion, etc. So just go ahead forward to your happy future.

Answer #2

stand up 4 urself. let them know how you feel

Answer #3

it’s quite sad for parents to say such mean things to their children. Try to stay out of their way because you don’t have long to live with them, find a job so you can see less of them. Your parents is not happy with themselves and they’re takeing it out on you. It wouldn’t matter who you talk to as a boyfriend they’ll alway find a problem in them. So when they trow all these hateful words to you tell that’s when you started to pray for them. Just hold on you’ll be from under those hateful words.

Answer #4

run away.

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