Hating your mother?

If you want to stop hating her, you’re going to have to do one of the most difficult things in your life - you first have to forgive her.

It’ll be hard to forgive your mother but, if you let god help you, then you’ll be set. You can live with a close friend so you won’t have to put up with your mother. I would also see a counselor to help you forgive her since you really can’t do it alone. If your mother didn’t want you in the first place, then why did she have sex? That’s beside the point. If I was your mother, I’d be blessed to have a daughter like you. I love babies and people in general. She definitely needs help. That’s terrible of her for saying mean things to you and not supporting you. My mother was like that with me as I got older into my teens and my young adult life. The difference, I was adopted and she wanted a girl. For the most part up until my teens and adult life, she’s supported me. Then I had my share of abuse too. You’re not alone. My best suggestion as I mentioned previously would be to see a counselor. They can help you with your family issues. And, move out of your mothers’ house. You don’t need to put up with her. All she is, is a selfish B*tch who doesn’t care one bit about her daughter whoes trying to live a normal life. She’ll never find love. You will! you shouldn’t say negative things about yourself either since I’m sure you’re very pretty. Pray for guidance and forgiveness and see if you can get counseling. I wish you the best of luck. Oh, you’ll eventually get to see your real family someday. It’ll take time.

I use to hate both my parents. One abused me, the other was never there, till everything ended. I was so mad with them both that the more I hated them the more angry I got with anyone. I learned instead of hating them, I’d just live a better life, without them. Live peacefully without there help. Thats the only way I could really let go. You really must stay with friends or anywhere you think is safe, and you need to call the authorities about what the man who abused you, and how your mother knew and didn’t care. I wish I had the chance to tell someone who cared about what was going on when I was younger :) Be strong!

Forgiveness is the beginning of healing. When you forgive things will change within you. LIfe will be good then. Let God show you how to forgive her, without Him you will always be filled with hate; hate turns to bitterness, and bitterness leads to a miserable, short life.