Do you think our relationship moving too fast?

girl you should be happy you got a man like that a lot of girls includeing me would kill to have a man like that …buy yea it is going to fast but you also dont want to go to to slow cause it mite be boring

It sounds like you have an amazing guy but maybe you should slow things down a bit. The only reason I say this is because your expectations soar really high and of course with positive thinking but stuff happens and wether its his fault or yours those expectations coulc come shattering down in one split second. All I’m saying is be carefull and just a little wary of the way things go… I’m not saying the whole to good to be true thing isnt real but still it pays to be just a teensy bit carefull… In other words just slow it up a bit…

Some people may think that after 2 months saying some of that stuff would be moving too fast. I think that you should just keep the relationship going at a steady pace, why rush? if its meant to be then it will last, but dont get caught up in everything being so perfect and never having a fight because one day it might not be like that but that doesnt mean the relationship is turning sour. it makes them stronger. As long as he is allowing you your space and you are allowing him his and get a long then thats great.

Well you asking this question shows that you are concerned about it moving too fast, and I would say that you are. The first part of a relationship is almost always a “honeymoon stage.” Where you are more likely to be smitten and “in love.” You say you haven’t had your first fight yet (which is great!), but until you have fought it is hard to know if he is “the one”. Because it will come, trust me, no couple is without some disagreement eventually(and yes, that knowledge hurts me as well as you). But that will show you what your relationship is built on. Whether it is something that will last. After you have been angry at him it will help you know if he is still the man you want to spend your life with(which I mean at 2 months it is hard to tell 100%, but as long as your relationship continues I mean).

Honestly I think the main problem I see with your relationship is that you are having Sex, which in my opinion is reserved for marriage. But that is just my own personal opinion because it is something highly intimate and creates bonds and emotions on it’s own. And as I am a Christian I believe that God has ordained it in such a position to reserve it only for the woman I will marry. As I do not know if you are a Christian or not it is hard to give you advice, but I would urge you to stop having sex. That alone could help you see if your boyfriend loves you; because it would test the waters and see if he is using you for sex or if he truly cares for you. Although I would guess that he actually does love you if everyone says he does.

I know that was just a jumble of thoughts rushing out, but hopefully it will help you some.

God Bless, Jorden

I am in the same boat. The way I met my boyfriend three months ago was straight out of a movie - very serendipitous, unexpected. We have EVERYTHING in common, have already talked about getting married and having kids…said I love you…had sex one month in…we are older, 30 and 40, but I still think that things are going too fast. I would suggest gently reminding him to enjoy your time together right now as opposed to too much talk of marriage and kids. Same with the moms, gently remind them, almost “mirthfuly” that you’d like to enjoy your time with your boyfriend now but that you look forward to the future with him (in your mind, whatever that may hold!). Good luck…