When will we finally do it so it's over with?

How can you’ve been dating for 8 years when you’re only 14? I don’t get that part. Kids don’t date. and you’re 14 that’s young for sex, but then again people these days are doing it much younger. But it’s your choice…if you want to do it, just tell him. Trust me, then ya’ll will do it.

I dont mean to be harsh, but I have read some of your other posts and can tell you with some degree of certainty that having sex will end in disaster for you (ie getting pregnant). Sex is not something that you ‘want to get over with’. It is something that happens naturally when two people are deeply in love with each other. I have been exactly where you are now at around your age and wanting desperatly to lose my virginity. But these feelings come about because of lack of respect for yourself. If you get this point, really get it, then you will completely turn your life and your future around.

Nicely said clealuira!

Dating this boy since you were 6? Thats just rediculous! It wouldnt matter if you were born on the same day, and started dating, thats not a reason to have sex! You are far too young & immature to even know the emotional side effects sex has! You are a child making an adult decision. Your clearly not mentally ready, even if your hormones are saying otherwise! Love & sex are NOT the same thing! Premarital sex is not patient, it is not kind, it does not protect, it is self-seeking. It is not love!

I’m 13 and have had sex. it’s not bad, it feels good, and the other girls are all jealous

How can you be datin a gut 4 8yrs if your only 14?wow dats sooo freaky!