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What to do when a guy use's you?

Okay so recently I went to this guys house basically to hang out. I’ve known him for well over two years and the last year we started having sex. I have always had feelings for him, like I deeply cared about him. So I just wanted to finally tell him that and I wasn’t expecting much from it because I didn’t think anything was going to change. Anyway we hung out, he went out and got pizza, then we went and rented a movie to watch, cuddled and then sex and then cuddle again. After we just feel asleep but then I couldn’t sleep because I knew I had to tell him. So toward the end I finally told him. I had a difficult time saying I love you and I remember he kept asking me what, say it. I finally did and I almost cried. After that he just didn’t say anything and wanted me to lay down on him. I did that awhile and he dove me back home with no conversation. The only thing blaring was his country music which was ironically about love and cheering up. It was so awkward driving back and now I’m just left hurt. Like I have no idea what to do now. I know that he doesn’t feel the same way and I was really expecting much. I don’t know I’m just confused on what I should right now. So please any help?

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Answer #1

Well I think he has to relize whT just had happen then he will think bout it. because what if he says it back then he ends up hurting you more. So just let time go by and if it was meant to be the peices will fall in place between you two

Answer #2

from a guys perspective I think you just got him off gaurd because girls have told me they loved me befoer and well I acted the same I just had to process it in my head so the only thing I can tell you is time will tell.

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