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How to convince my mom to keep my baby ?

Ok well to start off im 14 about to be 15 and april, well my boyfriend and I had sex ( unprotected ) and he buested in me and I was on birth control so I really didnt take it seriously. But the week after my lower stomach was killing me so I waited a few more days and took a first response test and it was positive I told my boyfriend and he was happy and he wants me to keep it and I want to keep it too but the problem is my mom is soo mean she always yell and she knew I wasnt a virgin but she dont know im pregnant I want to keep it but I don’t think she will allow me I don’t believe in abortions I will never kill an innocent life. But my boyfriend is now in shuman and I don’t know how long he is in there for . He was my only reason to keep my baby and now im scared so how can I tell my mom I am and persuade her for me to keep it thankz for the advice :)

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Answer #1

Here is a idea. Reasons why you shouldn’t have that child.

  1. You are 14 and have no fucking idea about being a mom
  2. you are irresponsible enough to have unprotected sex so how the hell are you going to raise a kid.
  3. how the fuck are you going to go to school 4 how the fuck are you going to get money to care for this kid.
  4. you will never have a decent living because you will get no education
  5. you will be a single mother with no fucking money
  6. but hey you deserve it for being an idiot. god damn I had sluts. You know what have the baby because I don’t care. you just ruined your fucking life not mine. Have fun making minimum while I go to college then graduate and make 250k a year and live in a multimillion dollar house while you live in a project making money selling crack.
Answer #2

You do what you want, she can’t make you ABORT your child, a REGRET you will always carry, and when you finally do have your own planned baby and see it, you will always wonder about the baby you aborted, TRUST ME..I did it. You can go to Child Protective services and let them know whats going on if your mom is treating you badly or trying to make you do something you don’t want to, emancipation is always an option, look it up and see what it says for your state. If you need someone to talk to you can talk to me lovielee@hotmail.com I can’t give you legal advice, but I can give you my opinion. Good Luck.

Answer #3

Just tell her how you feel. Explain why you want to keep the baby and maybe go to a doctor for advice. Explain that abortion is wrong and you do not want to consider adoption because it’s your baby.

Answer #4

your mother just wants the best for you. so tell her that you are willing to accept the responsibility of being a parent, and that it would make you happy. you’re 14, so of course your mother doesn’t think you’re ready for it. but tell her you really want the child, and promise her that you will take good care of it. hopefully she’ll let you keep the child, and you will be happy. your mother loves you, and she wants you to be happy.

Answer #5

I wouldn’t normally say this, but just don’t let her know. After 6 months of being pregnant, you can’t get an abortion. I don’t believe in them either, and thats why I am saying this. Make sure that you are really careful around her, and whatever you do, just when you do talk to your mom about it, show her that you will be responsible. If you need anyone to talk to, just funmail me and we can chat. I hope all goes well hun. Just pray!

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Answer #6

Oh yeah, smart advice. Dont tell her. That way you cant go get checked out and make sure everything is ok. Sorry, time to grow up and face the music. Your mom cant make you have an abortion. Tell her and deal with the consequences. I pity any baby whose mother is still talking like this ‘my mom is soo mean’, but I suppose there’s not much that can be done at this point. Tell your mother so you can start getting prenatal care.

Answer #7

dont tell her… LET HER FINd out on her own… because abortions cost money by the time she finds out it will be too late and you wont be able to get one… its your decision nt your mothers, the doctors are going to ask you if its really what you want and you need to tell them the truth

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