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controling my life!

okay so sum time ago I used 2 cut mehself because of depression. but iz like meh parents are taking over meh life. now there gettin on meh case about im not communicating wit dem!! first they take away meh friend (we were like sisters). then they say I cant go over meh big sisters house because shes a bad influence (shes not) but then he always use her as an example which I dont get. now there taking away my music. I bought this touch screen mp4 with meh own money now he wants 2 take it away!! im constantly losing friends because of meh parents and its like every time I turn around im losing sumtin. I dont feel comfortable talking 2 them because dey always put the blame on meh or change the subject!! im tired of it and now meh dad complains about my music and that if he sees sumitn inappropiate on it hes gonna take it away!!! I dont know what 2 do without meh music!! I get sick and deppressed when I dont have it. please help meh. tell meh what 2 do!!!

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Answer #1

No doubt they’re scared FOR you and are trying their best to keep you safe and bad influences away - they’re not perfect and they probably could communicate with you better but may not know how - bottom line: they’re try to look after your best interests, love you, and Care - many parents don’t so that’s definitely not a bad thing - try to show them you can be responsible and they don’t need to worry so much…I wish you the best !!

Answer #2

tell them you NEED your music and they need to not b soo controlling. I know the feeling. im the same way I always told my ma if she took my music away itd b the last thing shed ever do. I even pushed her down the stair lol but dont do that. that wouldnt help much. maybe you could try seeing a counelor tell them bout the way your being treated it should help them to understand more.

Answer #3

stop saying meh, and use me, or my. talk to your parents about your life, don’t jut shut them out, it will only make the worse. don’t try and rebel against them either and they shouldn’t stop you seeing your sister! talk to them about your friends, and maybe try making new friends, join a club or something. I wish I could help more x

Answer #4

ugh! lolz dats funny! your rite but… I don’t know meh dad says da things you put in your mind goes 2 your heart and out your mouth!!! I do but meh couselor neva has time for meh!!

Answer #5

ya but… ugh!! the thing is they dont care!! thats what im trying 2 say here!! im 14 thx u. but wateva ill suck it up 4 now on but im if that wont work what will.

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