How can I stop telling myself that I'm fat?

Hey, listen your not overweight, especially not ob eased you sound like a very active girl and a really fun girl to be around. Don’t listen to your brothers, my brother is the same way to me, rude and obnoxious! ha ha, but listen , you don’t need to starve yourself to look good, or to have guys notice you, trust me. Don’t let your self esteem fall because you don’t look exactly like some victories secret model, or because you think you have to look like your friends to fit in. Your not forced to do anything you don’t want to, regarding anything. Get comfortable in your own skin and try not to worry about what other people think. If you still need some questions or anyone to talk to, you can talk to me, send me a fun mail and what not. I’m looking forward to speaking with you again,

your friend Luis

oh my gosh sweetie your not fat at all a few years ago i was just about that size and my friends and family teased me about being too skinny please never starve yourself the girls in magazines may seem beautiful but nothing is as it seems they are professionally dressed and their make-up is applied by professionals also most people on magazine covers are touched up in photo shop which is how they are so beautiful. You are beautiful just the way you are never try to change your body or starve yourself.

I am your size and I am not fat at all! I also am about as active as you! keep it up!!

kelly

Gives you a big hug First off, you are more active than me! Holy, cow… I don’t even know much about lacrosse… Listen, hunny… You are beautiful… I want you to look into the mirror tonight, and look at your self. You know you love your self, don’t you? If you didn’t… You wouldn’t take such good care of your self, the way you do now! I think you are amazing! I know if I worked out as much as you do, I’d be buff as heck! I’m, just kindof lazy any more lol Sweetie you are normal! :-D Smiles Don’t starve your self please…

Here is an FYI! :D A Helpful Friendly Tip… Because I really care about you, believe it or not, I know You dont know me I dont know you ya ya blah blah and that stuff… but Thats fine! You will.

Okay, when you look in the mirror.. try this Wink at your self and smile… I know I know! It sounds silly, trust me it is fun! Once your start laughing, you’ll make a few faces, its fun! Then then then, here listen it gets better dear…

Flex your muscles and grunt a little hehe… ITs kinda fun huh? I like to tell my self how Beautiful I am, and I look great! It helps me to stop worrying to much about how I look, and start realizing how neat of a person I am inside & out!

The more you do it, the more you realize… there is really no problem with you at all! Laughs I know, it seems simple doesnt it?

Guess what! It really is! Take it from me, when I realized the only one person who was the hardest on me than ANY of my siblings, friends or family… WAS ME!

Gives you another hug We’re a wonderful group of people here at Funadvice. You talk to any one of our support (Members like you) or advisor’s when ever you need them. Feel free to e-mail us.

I hope you feel better! Remember, Looking in the mirror, and being confident isn’t conceit its open expressiveness… Take care

~Ben~