Do you believe in love?

Maybe some people had a bad experience or something . A bad experience can cause you to believe in less . However some people believe in love .

They’ve never had love experiences.

They’ve never had love experiences.

They’ve never had love experiences.

Ahh sorry for the multiple replies!

Choose to love someone? I don’t understand how that works… If you had feelings for both and chose one of them, I would understand that. But if you had feelings for one but chose the other, it sounds rather complicated. But I’m glad you found ‘the one’.

I did have feelings for both of them…but like I said the other one was abusive…and I had to get away from it no matter how much I loved him I couldn’t say and put up with that forever. I chose to give my love to someone who i knew would return it. Sorry for all the confusion lol

I did have feelings for both of them…but like I said the other one was abusive…and I had to get away from it no matter how much I loved him I couldn’t say and put up with that forever. I chose to give my love to someone who i knew would return it. Sorry for all the confusion lol

sorry didn’t mean to reply twice

I believe in love. But I also think it’s rare and what most people have is not love though they think they do. I do not believe love ends.

Oh I see now. Well it makes sense. xD Thanks for clearing it up.

That’s true… Many people consider a crush or a like as ‘love’. For instance, I have a crush on a guy and everyone keeps saying “love” so I have to correct them all the time by saying crush.

There is a biological basis to love. When we are in love there is a rush of neurotransmitters and hormones that cause us to bond together. Nursing, cuddling, sex, and even some things we think and believe cause the release of oxytosin which leads us to bond with other people. Sexual attraction causes an increase in testosterone which encourages us to engage each other. Medications can change our love response. SSRI antidepressants dull both our sex drive and our instinct to pair bond. Since there is a biological basis for love it obviously has some survival benefit. We love because our ancestors who loved were more likely to pass on their genes than those who didn’t. We all come from a long line of lovers.

Love exists. If your friends are the type that say “love sucks, there’s no such thing as love, blahblahblah” then they’ve never really experienced it.

Ah okay . Maybe they know other people who are close to them that had bad experiences or maybe they are scared

Ah okay . Maybe they know other people who are close to them that had bad experiences or maybe they are scared

Yeah… They say they’ve never had a crush on someone or anything like that @-@”””

Ahh if only I could remember all of that xD