How can I handle finding an old X-rated video of my boyfriend?

I’ve recently come across a video of my boyfriend having sex with a female in 2003. At this time he was 39 and she 20. This female is in his choir at church. There was at least a nineteen year age difference. What should I do and how should I feel about this?

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Answer #1

Talk to him about it and let him know how you feel try to have a conversation with him without all the yelling. It was in 2003 and thats in the past. But make sure he still dont like her or would do anything with her

Answer #2

Personally, I would probably feel a little funny seeing my partner in such a tape, but I don’t think it would really bother me (assuming you two were not together in 2003). If you two were not together at that point, and they were both adults, they did not do anything wrong. If you feel that you can fully trust him, then I do not think it should come between you in any way. However, if you have your doubts and wonder if he might be running around with this girl, that could certainly create some issues.

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