Is it wrong to go behind my friends back with him even though Shes practically using him?

I Really like a guy that my pretty much best friend makes out with all the time. She loves 2 other guys and said that if one of the other guys ask her out shes just gonna tell him its over. Shes not going out with him. But he told me he liked me and he calls me Gorgeous and beautiful and sexy all the time and wants to hang out (and make out) I really want to because i really like him But is it wrong to go behind her back even tho she is practically using him? He told me to not tell her and I will be his dirty little secret.

Answer #1

Yes it’s wrong…..here’s what patience willl get you…..since you know that she’s looking elsewhere, and is going to dump him anyway….why not wait until that scenerio plays out? That way, you get the guy, will be able to keep your best friend…nobody gets hurt. Being a “sneak around “ type best friend….how does that make ya feel?? I don’t think I’d like myself much.

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