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Why won't the rush of the affair go away?

I’m married 15 years to a man who loves me, but have no attraction to. I have 3 kids that I stay in the marraige for. I’m secretly seeing a man for over 5 years whom I have an over the top, intense attraction to, have incredible sex with. this affair shows no signs of getting weaker, just stronger. I think of my lover a lot and want even more time with him but I’m married.

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Answer #1

very very dramatic answer nyquesha.

There is no telling what will happen if she leaves for her affair. There will be lawsuit up on her. First of her, she have three kids. 1 2 3. That is a big responsibility to have and if she leaves, what will happen to kids? Won’t they said, “where the hell is mommy?” Second, if she had problem with sexual activities with her husband, she should have discussed with her husband OR go see a marriage counselor for more descriptive advice. Lastly, Is Love only about Sex and Lust? Partially in adult relationship, but happiness with family as whole makes up the eternal blooming of fulfillment. Obviously she doesnt feel that because she only see Sex.. Im sorry to say this, but if you leave him, won’t you make your husband sad? your kids cry? Is Sex&Lust over-balance Family&Future? Answer that and make your decision

Answer #2

listen if your not happy in your relationship you need to do what makes you happy and if this make you happy you should be with him because its obvious you falling for this guy

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