Does the pain go away?

Being scared and tense is the problem, it will make you tense up a lot and you won’t get any pleasure or be able to get him in you. You were probably nervous at the exam too, as it is not the nicest situation to be in, and so it hurt you.

Focus on creating a relaxing environment for the two of you and then spend a lot of time kissing and just touching externally. Get your boyfriend to give you oral if he can as hopefully this will help you relax, and just breathe deeply. Do not think about the pain, try to think about the fact that you can do this, and want to, and you trust him not to hurt you.

Remember, a baby can come out of there, so he can fit in.

When you feel ready (take as long as you need, you should not feel you have to rush anything), then get him to use some lube and just use one finger in you as well as rubbing your clitoris. Then work up to two fingers and as many as you feel comfortable with. In much the same way, work your way up to sex. Once he has fingered you successfully a few times then go from kissing, to that, to full sex, again using plenty of lube.

Relaxation is really the key, so explain your concerns to your boyfriend and take it slow. Once you relax you will be able to have sex, and that is when it will start to feel really good.