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Do I leave him and move 900 mi. away?

I have been married for 3 years, together for 5 1/2. We have a 4yr old and I have a 9yr old from a previou relationship. Our marriage is horrible- we do nothing together- watch tv, eat supper, shop, go out, laugh, we don’t even sleep together and only have sex 4 times a year,if that. My husband is slightly verbally abusive- swears at the children, calls them pathetic and calls my oldest a dirtball, calls me names when he thinks I’m not listening then denies it when I confront him. Anyway, 1 1/2 years ago I went to visit my family in my home state(900 mi. away) and I meet a man I can’t get out of my heart- I had an affair and still am. I have seen him twice since then and text on the phone weekly and email. I want to divorce my husband and move back home to be closer to this man to give us a chance. But is it fair to take our son 900 mi. away? I would also be close to family of which I have none here.

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Ok huni I watched my mother go through the same thing and I grew up in that situation if you want it from a teenages point of view going through it, get out now I mean it your son will be better off as you shall to.

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