Why won't he say it already?

There’s this guy who really wants to be with me but he won’t ask me out. He doesn’t have a girlfriend and right now we’re friends so it’s like he doesn’t know me. I really like him and want to be with him and he feels the same about me but he seems a little frightened. I’m not a person who likes to flirt so I don’t make him feel uncomfortabl. So why won’t he ask me out. Help.

Answer #1

mabye he is afraid if ur already friends if you broke up it would destroy ur friendship.Think about all the possible reasons and then speak to him about it you would be suprised how many people find once they hav worried for ages that all they needed to do was to talk to that person.Goodluck im sure it will work out.

Answer #2

You answered your own question! the fact that you dont life to flirt with him is giving him mixed signals, he doesnt no whether you like him enough to want to be with him so he doesnt feel comfortable around you enough to get to know you better. Flirting is heaps of fun! i suggest not being so uptight and let go a lil and experiment, flirt with him and talk to him, make him feel comfortable with you so you have that communication going on, you wont get answers you want if the boy doesnt feel like he can talk to you!

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